“Oh my god, your blog just told me that squeezing my thighs together when i have “me time” is normal! All this time i thought i was weird! thank you!
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“Hey! I found out your blog recently and I had to thank you. You are always so sweet and you help us in anything you can! You helped me understand what I like, and helped me accepting my body and gain a bit more of confidence. Your tutorials are just excellent. So, thank you. You are wonderful and you made my life so much better.”
“I was looking through your FAQ, and can I just say you totally lifted a huge weight off my shoulders. I read through the “Can you be too young to masturbate?" question and you totally put my mind to ease. I was really young when I started and I always wondered if there was something wrong with me or something happened and I repressed the memory. Thank you (and thank you for the fabulous blog.)"
“Dear God, I just orgasmed for the first time through just using my hands. I usually use the shower head method or my my dildo/vibrators, but I left them at Uni while I go back home this weekend. I, and countless guys, have never been able to make myself orgasm through old school hands on masturbation, but this morning I just went for it and started reading stories that had been submitted. I felt it hit me like a wave and it was so good. My clit is still throbbing, so it must have been good…”
“Hi! I would just like to thank you for your wonderful blog. I have never been fully satisfied by sex, and I always found masturbating awkward.Your blog helped me get over my awkwardness and now I feel empowered knowing that I can satisfy myself!”
Thanks for coming…
All the sexy little toe-curling back-arching pillow-grabbing underwear-soaking oh-fuck-i-can’t-believe-i’m-gonna… orgasm stories from my inbox ;)
“So I had never heard of pillow humping, so I tried it and loved it. The next time I went to try it, I played the audio post of all those guys getting off. Oh my god, it was so perfect. You are the greatest person ever.”
“Okay, I’m just feeling really amazing right now because I just orgasmed for the first time from fingering myself thanks to your blog! I know it sounds stupid but I’m actually kinda… proud of myself? haha! thank you!”
“I just wanted to let you know how much you’ve inspired me. I just had my first and second orgasm a few days ago using my bath faucet and it was amazing! Rubbing my clit never really worked. But today I tried it and, wow! I couldn’t of have done it without you!”
“You probably get these sorts of messages a lot, but seriously, thank you for helping me achieve my first orgasm via fingering myself. As a lesbian, this finally happening was definitely a big relief for me. Thanks again!”
“Thanks to your blog, I have successfully masturbated and gotten well over three orgasms and squirted, for the first time, six times at that! For the dry spell I’ve been through lately I’m one happy lady tonight! THANK YOU”
“I found your blog a few days ago from your post about antidepressants messing with your sex drive. I used to masturbate almost every day and be able to orgasm without fail, yet when I started my antidepressants, I completely lost the ability to orgasm. I started watching a few of the solo guy videos that you posted and although it takes a lot longer, I can finally finish myself off for the first time in a month! I’m so so glad I found your blog, it’s amazing.”
“I just had a super intense orgasm and it felt so good I’m still feeling the aftershocks. Because of this I just wanted to leave a quick thank you, because I wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for you. I was a pretty repressed person before finding your blog. I was uncomfortable with my sexuality, my body, and I wash’t remotely assured as to who I was. I was confused about everything and I didn’t know where to look for answers. Your blog helped me figure out so much about myself, thanks!”
“I was bored doing nothing when your blog suddenly showed up on my dashboard and 10 minutes into it i already had my hand down my pants for a quick one because I HAD TO i couldn’t control it seriously!”
“I’m 19 and I have had my first orgasm this morning. I masturbated with an electric toothbrush because I saw it here and IT WAS INCREDIBLE! I had 4 orgasms. At first I wasn’t sure if they were orgasms, but of course they were. I just read some stories from your tumblr and it helped me. THANKS! Orgasms feel amazing, I literally can’t wait to masturbate again haha”
“I totally just masturbated using the Neutrogena Wave after reading your post. and it was so exciting because all my family was in the house and I orgasmed four or five times. So thanks and I love your blog .xx”
“Ohmygod I just had 6 orgasms in a row with an electric toothbrush. Before it had been rare to have even one! When I first bought it (because of this blog, btw) it felt really nice, but I couldn’t exactly orgasm from it. Today I experimented with it and found out that when I hold the bristles at the very top of my clit I can come in like 10 seconds. Best masturbation session ever! For those of you who haven’t come yet, keep experimenting, because you’ll eventually find your sweet spot like I did :)”
“This is awkward, but I wanted to tell you what I discovered today! So, I have been humping pillows for as long as I could remember. In the last 2 years I have tried fingering and I get no feeling, no pleasurable sensation. I read your post about things you could use in case you can’t buy toys, so last night I tried an electric toothbrush… and still no feeling! The problem with humping a pillow is that the feeling only lasts a couple of seconds and I’m left feeling gross and unsatisfied.
Well, Ive been feeling extra-horny lately and I just really want to orgasm so I was thinking and I remembered I have a Clarisonic face washer and it vibrates! So I brought it to my room and OMG. The feeling when it hits my clit is just overwhelming. I was grabbing my sheets and trying to hold in my breaths! I had to keep stopping early because I don’t want to moan to loud with my parents and sister home. But they’ve just gone to bed and I think I’m going to be doing it all night! Thank You for helping me!”
“I’m 18 years old and a virgin, but I wanted to know how it felt to have a orgasm so I came across your blog and tried the vibrating toothbrush thing. Well let’s just say I am definitely buying some more toothbrushes. I just sat back and relaxed in bed and before I knew it I had two orgasms while watching Fairy GodParents.”
“Okay so i’m sorta excited and i kinda want to tell someone lol. So I was using my electric toothbrush as a vibrator, and I already had one orgasm, but I keep going. And in the middle of my second, I fucking squirted!!!! It’s all thanks to your help.”
“Oh man I just made myself orgasm with my fingers for the first time ever and I just had to share! I had always always used the bathtub faucet to get off and it gave me the most intense orgasms ever. But I was never able to get off just by using my fingers. I pulled up one of your hot girl on girl videos (I’m straight but i LOVE lesbian porn) and began stroking myself. Before I knew it I was all tingly and bam!! Orgasm! Thank you thank you thank you!”
"I’ve been following your blog for we few months now and your posts about showerhead masturbation made me curious so I decided to check it out. Amazing experience and I highly recommend it!! It takes me no time to reach my climax and it feels absolutely amazing! Thank you so much!! <3”
“Oh my fucking god I just had the BEST orgasm ever. I’ve never had any real sexual times with people so it’s always been me and my handy hand. Anyway, I was masturbating like normal when I decided to slow down, watch a good video and just enjoy. And my god did I enjoy. I edged myself so many times. God it felt so great I can practically still feel it. I just had to share!”
“So i just had the best goddamn orgasm of my LIFE. I feel like people send you things that start like this all the fucking time, but now i know why! I just need to tell someone, and all my friends who’d listen are sleeping! Like i was practically out of my mind and over the moon. I normally have no problem keeping quiet, but DAMN i physically had to hold myself back from making noise. I think i would’ve been screaming if i hadn’t. i’m just so happy. OK, if i don’t stop talking i’ll be horny again…”
“Oh my god, so before your blog I was used to the simple rubbing technique when masturbating, after reading about the humping method here I tried it but it didn’t do anything for me. I was a bit skeptic about the showerhead method but I decided to try it. I was missing out on so many things! It was so intense it scared me and I almost fell over. I probably stopped before it was over b/c I felt like I couldn’t handle it but totally worth it. Thank you so much!”
“I’m usually quiet when I masturbate, but used the electric toothbrush with out the head on it, and oh my god I could not quit moaning and I squirted like five times! I’m swear I’m still trembling.”
“Just used the link you put up for the audios on literotica and omg, I haven’t come that hard in SO LONG. Thank you so much. I love your blog!”
“I just had the most AMAZING orgasm after listening to some male audio from your blog! HOLY. SHIT. Thank you.”
“Ohhh my god thank you for this blog. My boyfriend and i have recently withheld sex until i refill my birth control prescription (only four more days!) and i have been going stir crazy not getting any two-person relief. This blog SUPER ROCKS and also made me feel better about being straight and into lesbian porn. So yeah, I had a good solo evening and i appreciate it! Thank you and have a nice day!”
“I just had my first orgasm EVER! My only sexual relationship was disappointing, which makes sense now that I know I’m gay and I’ve been really horny lately. I have a vibrator and felt like I’ve gotten close but I would shift slightly and lose my momentum. This time I clenched it between my legs over my clit and managed to keep it there and oh my god. I want more. Next step - getting there with my fingers! Thank you for your amazing blog.”
"Okay so I’ve been ‘masturbating’ since I was about 13 - I’m by far the youngest in my family so I have a lot of time at my house alone! - but I’ve never orgasmed. We have this back massager called a genie rub that I used ALL the time. But I never orgasmed. I tried quite a few methods: shower head, bath tub faucet, a ‘dildo’ (a hair wand), and my fingers. It always would get where it felt really good, but I could just never come.
I started to just get really frustrated with myself and my body. But I kept doing it at least once a week to no avail.
I read tons of sex stories and fanfics, and even watched a few videos. I listened to sexy audio and tried to orgasm.
Then one blessed day, as I was looking up erotica on tumblr, I came across this blog. I read the stuff on this blog and visited it for about a week.
Three nights ago, I was laying in my bedroom, after my family had gone to bed, and I was watching this tv show with a couple really hot guys in it, and I got super horny. I’d already read up on some of your tips and stuff about masturbation.
So, I watched this really hot lesbian video, and then I layed on my stomach and played with my breasts. I put in headphones and listened to sex audio. Then slid my hand down my pants. I slowly began to press and very gently rub my clit. I’m picturing a sexy threesome with my two best friends. I stick one finger inside to get it nice and wet. I started rubbing my clit and then it started feeling really good. I was softly moaning at this point and then I started rubbing and flicking my clit really hard.
I took a deep breath and my legs quivered and I groaned. I had FINALLY had my first orgasm!
I just wanted to thank you so much for your awesome blog! It really helped and I’m so happy! (Oh, and by the way, I masturbated and orgasmed twice the next day, and the next, and I’m about to go at it again today. I can’t get enough! Happy orgasms ladies :))”
“I just had to tell you! I was lazily scrolling through your blog while gently rubbing my clit through my shorts. The air was blowing through my open windows and I felt so relaxed and at ease. As I was reading through stories and watching gifs I felt myself getting wetter and wetter and without thinking my panties were off and I was going faster, giggling and sighing and teasing my clit and fingering myself gently, the cool air touching my wetness. It was so sensual hearing my moans and the sounds of my wet folds against my hands. I was caressing and gently pleasing myself, and I opened my legs fully, going deeper and faster and I came for the first time!! I even tasted myself. Sorry if this was boring I’m just so pleased! ;)”
“Holy shit, I have to share this with someone. I haven’t masturbated in about 2 weeks and I just orgasmed 4 times. I almost passed out after each one because they were that intense.”
“I’ve masturbated practically every day since I was 14 or so [and first had an orgasm when I was 12], and initially I felt incredibly ashamed! All I could think was, ‘Oh wow, I’m such a disgusting person for enjoying this.’ We’d barely just learnt about it – and when I say ‘learnt’ our teacher taught us what it meant and that’s as far as it was ever discussed – and I was already touching myself?
Now that I’m more comfortable with who I am sexually I don’t feel embarrassed at all, in fact I think it’s made me a more relaxed and open person.
However since no-one [not even my own parents] dealt with the subject very directly I only discovered where my clitoris was hidden last week! I had to Google it in the end and the process of finding it was much simpler and more ‘hands on’ than I’d anticipated. I’ve got to say compared to what I’ve been doing for these past few years my sessions now feel like absolute bliss…
Reading up on your blog has enlightened me a great deal as well! For example,I never thought about using a showerhead before and I’ve just got to say. WOW. I couldn’t quite reach orgasm since I’m a bit inexperienced with uh, using a shower head like that? That would normally be quite a pathetic night if I couldn’t even orgasm, but the ride on its own was better than anything I’ve ever felt – usually I don’t make a sound so that no-one catches me in the act [as everyone always seems to want to wander into my room right when I’m about to start] – but this time the sensation I was getting was so powerful I literally squealed!
Also it was interesting to find out other people orgasm in their sleep as well! For me it’s a very rare occurrence [maybe 2 or 3 times a year] and I always doubted whether or not I was just imagining it or not. It’s not always as powerful as a built up orgasm, but it’s definitely a pleasant experience to have in your life-time [Having an orgasm without even trying- all you’ve got to do it dream about one!]
Sorry for sending you such a long message! I hope you don’t get bored reading through it!”
“Ok so your post on different ways to masturbate helped me out so much! I’m so happy I’m not the only one who has dry humped a pillow or used a brush handle or whatever was around I’m a lot more aware of other tricks now too!! I can’t thank you enough!”
“I just realized that you’ve been blogging again! I remembered when you said that you’ll stop for a while, so I stopped watching it. I’m REALLY happy you returned. I do love your blog, it’s been very useful in my sexual life.”
“Hey I just wanted to thank you for making this blog! Recently my friend was in need of advice concerning health after losing her virginity and she would’ve gone to my other, more experienced friend (I’ve never had a sexual experience with anyone lol) but she was asleep, so I needed to help her. Let’s just say, thanks to the links, diagrams, and other information I’ve read on this blog, I was able to help my friend calm down and actually give useful advice for once! Thank you so much!”
“This blog not only help me get it on with myself, but also helped me realize how into girls I really am: aka I’ve worked out I’m so fucking gay and I’m so much happier! Also; this blog makes me feel like my body isn’t disgusting and have me the courage to be able to look and love my body so thank you for this blog. Keep up the good work.
“If I believed in God, I’d say you were doing His work here. You are a wonderful beautiful person, thank you for sharing your wisdom with us. I am so glad I found your blog. I’m so hooked, I haven’t even closed the tab to your page on my tablet, every time I turn it on I go straight to here. There’s an infinity of wonderful stories and sexy pictures. You’re just the greatest. Thank you!”
"I wanted to let you know that your blog empowered me to take my friends to an adult boutique to buy vibrators. Only myself and one of my friends bought them but let me tell you we are both REALLY happy we did. I love your blog!”
"I really hope that you keep blogging because what you are doing is really important and informative (well also extremely arousing too). So thanks!!! <3”
“Just wanted to say I really love your blog. I lost mine a few months ago but I still come here all the time. It’s the only blog I come back to, too (I’m not a fan of porn, there’s something in it that makes me feel so cheap) but your blog is great. “
“I discovered your blog today and I have to say that I love it! I love to masturbate although I have a boyfriend and it’s good to know that there are women out there that love masturbation too :)”
“Thank you so much for this blog. I don’t follow many sexual blogs but you are an exception! Thank you for all the techniques and teaching me that pillow humping (the only way i can orgasm) is actually quite common!”
“I found this blog around a year ago, and I just shared it with my friends. We had a sleepover a couple of nights ago and spent most of the time scrolling through this blog.”
“Hi, I wanted to say thank you for making this blog, because I’ve learned new things that will really help me. Reading other peoples stories made me understand how sex works, what should happen, and what you might feel! I don’t what I’d have done without it.”
“Hey I wanted to thank you a lot because after reading this blog and trying different methods, I finally tried out using an electric toothbrush to masturbate. I put it on my clit and after a little bit I squirted for the first time in my life. I didn’t expect it at all and it soaked my bed, but I didn’t have an orgasm. Round two is tonight and I think this time I will be able to reach my first orgasm. I’ll be sure to put a towel down. :) Thanks.”
“Can I just take a moment to share this? I literally have no one else and I’m just really kinda excited, right now. I just squirted without even trying to - WHAT EVEN. That was entirely bizarre, but not unpleasant. I just need to be more prepared with a towel, next time! Thank you for your amazing blog!”
“Oh my god I just squirted for the first time! I had no idea I could! While I was masturbating today, I was creaming as usual and then suddenly some juice squirted out. It was only a little at first then I ended up squirted soo much! And all before I even orgasmed! I had to clean up a whole mess, it was so exciting<3<3<3 -z”
“Omg omg omg! I just squirted for the first time! I am so excited and I needed to share this with someone. I really didn’t think I could do that but wow that was amazing.”
“I just had surgery and i’m unable to masturbate ;-( it’s your fault because your blog got me hooked on masturbating, so now I feel like dying. I miss my darling showerhead so much.”
Aw, honey. Think how satisfying it’ll be when you finally come though!
“I’ve been following you long enough now to send you a private message and I just had to tell you how hot your blog is. Your comments top it off and all I can think about is fucking you and making you cum. Hard.
Enjoy your day, have lots of orgasm-y fun ;)”
Unf, thank you for that. You too!
Have fun everybody…
Lots of happy giggly breathless sticky shaky people in my inbox…
“Thanks to this blog, I finally got my first orgasm! I read here that sometimes clenching your legs together helps, and when I was masturbating the other night, I got really really close—and normally what happens is absolutely nothing, the feeling fizzles out and I am disappointed—but I remembered the tip, and clenched my thighs together really hard, and then I felt HOLY CRAP AMAZING PLEASURE like I’d never felt before! Thanks so much!”
"So I’m 19 and just found your blog tonight. I had never had an orgasm before and I just want to say THANK YOU SERIOUSLY because I just finally got there watching some of the videos on this blog so omg thank you I’m still shaking.”
"I just had my first orgasm! For years I thought that you had to masturbate really really fast to push yourself over to orgasm, but today I was just scrolling through this blog and slowly messing with my clit… and it came out of nowhere! Thank you!”
“Just until today, I’ve never actually been able to fully orgasm- I would just get feelings of pleasure, but I could never cum. So I tried what you said to do, and I actually focused on the feeling instead of rushing to get to the end, and I had the most AMAZING orgasm ever!! Better yet, I actually came! Anyway I just wanna say thanks for this amazing blog, and have an awesome day!:)”
“So, hi. I just want you to know that your tips about masturbation just made me have an orgasm for the first time on my own. I always felt like I was almost there but never happened before. Thanks so much for this!”
“i just wanted to let you know that I just got my first orgasm thanks to you! I followed your tips on clit rubbing and discovered hand wash works like a charm! I had a really long orgasm (at least it felt like it) and I even think I was capable of giving myself multiple but i don’t think i could do it without being really loud :)) thank you so much! everyone should explore their own bodies at their own pace, without judgment. thank you so much for running such a sex-positive blog. keep it up!”
“First orgasm! (: Im currently 18 years but nothing has ever worked for me, I even used vibrators! Well, when I found your blog I saw the “faucet method" and thought "that won’t work, I already tried the showerhead" BOY WAS I WRONG. I used room temperature water, and our faucet makes the water come out GUSHING so it felt so good, especially when moving in up and down movements. (; IT WAS PERFECT. THANKYOU THANKYOU!!(:"
“OMG i just tried your pillow humping technique but previously when i have it hasn’t worked but this time i put my electric toothbrush on the pillow and omg i’ve never came so quickly! I love you blog so much wow.”
“Just came four times simultaneously in under six minutes thanks to your blog and my electric toothbrush. Holy shit. Best ever!”
“I used the electric toothbrush today and OMG thank you! I came so hard my legs were shaking, and I managed to squirt! This all happened in under a minute and it felt so fucking good.”
“I just had my first orgasm from masturbating with a razor handle. It was amazing, and also really reassuring because I´m a virgin and I was afraid I wouldn´t be able to get orgasms once I was with a guy. I´d never used sex toys before (makeshift or otherwise) so I guess I just had to try something different :)”
"Hi! Okay wow so a sort-of first for me just happened..I was watching one of the videos (a very hot one called incomparable girl orgasm or something like that) and i was SO turned on i started to finger myself, and whenever i’ve tried to finger myself before it never really felt very good, but this time i must have had the right angle and was turned on enough and it felt SO good! I’m so happy right now :)”
“Lately when I masturbate I can only squirt a little, probably squirt 2-4 times total. I read over some of your tips last night for squirting. Oh my god! It worked! I have never squirted so much! It was great! Thank you so much for everything you have done! Just wanted to let you know that what you do on this blog is majorly appreciated xx”
"Oh my god! I just watched that solo guy video by Haydon whatshisname. I hadn’t ever even thought about watching solo guy videos, but that. Was. So. Sexy. Soooo anyway, thanks for helping me explore!”
“Thank god for this blog: i’ve learned the art of pillow humping and orgasmed twice tonight!”
“I just tried the mardi gras beads method and it was the best orgasm I’ve EVER had. I’m still shaking!”
“So it’s been almost five months since I’ve played with myself. Like, I literally haven’t masturbated all year with no idea why. But today I played this one video you posted for a submitter who liked watching guys get off, and it turned me on so much that I had the best orgasm I’ve experienced by far. Legs shaking, gasping for breath, that sort of thing. So.. thank you. :)”
"Until I found your blog, I thought the only way I could masturbate was using my fingers on my clit. But I love your blog, and I was scrolling through and saw the pillow humping ideas. I was alone today and decided to try it. I started out with my pillow unfolded, but it became clear that I like it better folded. I watched one of your videos and rocked my hips back and forth. I put my fist under the pillow and grinded my clit against it and boom!! It was magic!! So again, thanks!!”
“Thank you so much for having this Tumblr. I have just spent an hour or more having a casual afternoon wank whilst scrolling through and jesus it was good. Also, if anyone wants to buy good, cheap sex toys, the website Bondara is brilliant. My session included taking my new vibrator for a test run ;)”
“Hi, I just wanted to thank you so much for this blog!! You’ve made masturbating a thousand times better & I get super horny whenever I see your posts on my dash! I just squirted of the first time yesterday from your tips❤”
“Hey, I just found your blog a little while ago and it already encouraged me to find a rather discreet toy and tried it out this morning! It was great and honestly I can’t wait to use it again.”
“Every time I discover a new method to get off, it’s always thanks to your blog ! You have no idea how much orgasms I got by following your tips, thank you so much!”
“I’ve been following you for years, but I’ve only done clitoral stimulation… Up until about ten minutes ago! It’s not quite a dildo or a vibrator, but I fucked myself with the end of my makeup brush, and let me tell you: I have been missing out on SO much. Thank you thank you thank you!”
“I was really fucking horny, and I wanted to have a great orgasm so I came and looked at your tips for penetration since I’ve never gotten off with it before. While I was rubbing my clit, I went faster and faster until I was just about to release. As soon as I felt it coming, I stuck my fingers inside my pussy and I came instantly. Thank you for the best orgasm I’ve ever gotten. Fuck.”
“I thought i’d orgasmed before but i tried the electric toothbrush thing and holy crap I WAS SO WRONG. I was skeptical about using a toothbrush on my clit since i can’t even use it on my teeth but i put some lube on there and i was shaking in seconds - i even squirted, something i gave up on long ago! Now i’m just worried that i won’t be able to get off any other way…”
“Hey I’m a 23 year old virgin. So, I was in the middle of you-know, and my fingers just… went in?! I’ve never had any penetration before cause I’m just really afraid of the unknown but this time, they just sort of slipped in! And it’s thanks to your blog that made me feel comfortable about it otherwise I would have been freaking out. Wow. It’s so refreshing to not be afraid of my own body. I’ve always been afraid of sex and self-conscious etc. All I want to do now is find my g spot! :) Cheers!”
“I saw a post of yours about how if you masturbate when you have cramps it helps alleviate them. Toooootally didn’t believe it (and i always thought that masturbating on my period was icky and just not a good idea.) Buuuut i tried it today and oh my god. My cramps went away and they haven’t been back for a good 20 minutes! Looks like i have a new hobby.”
“I hope this isn’t too much TMI, but I was on your blog and I read that masturbating/orgasming on your period can help with cramps, and that you can actually masturbate on your period in the shower. Being someone who literally passes out do to the pain from cramps I decided to give it a go and OHMYGOD Thank you! The pain is almost enitrely subsided! and it was amazing as well! Thank you so much! Love your blog have an awesome day! <3”
“Hi! i just wanted to tell you because I’m really excited. I have been masturbating for a few years but could never orgasm through my g-spot. But the other night i finally did and now cant stop, hahaha! I just thought I would say because I’m actually quite proud and very happy. Your blog has helped me sooo much, thank you!”
“Just wanted to say i’m home alone and I’ve orgasmed so many times today thanks to this blog! Love you!”
“Hey! I love your blog; I’ve been reading/watching it since last year. Thanks to you, I’ve had my first orgasm and it was PHENOMENAL”.
“I just wanted to say, I’ve been reading your blog for about an hour or two now and it’s amazing. Before, I had every intention of going straight to bed tonight, but now I basically can’t wait to masturbate. Not only have your posts awesome for getting turned on, but a lot of them have been really informative and really helpful. Thanks a bunch!”
“Hey, so you probably get a lot of messages like this but I really wanted to thank you.
I’ve been browsing your blog for about a month now and have tried countless methods of getting off and felt nothing, which made me frustrated.
About half an hour ago after a failed pillow humping session, I decided to give up for the night. However, something possessed me to gently run my longish nails along my clit and WOW. It felt so good! A few more strokes and next thing I knew I was on my stomach and imagining my boss asking for me to fuck him (no idea where that came from!)
It must have been half a minute and next thing I knew I shook a bit and squirted all over my bed sheets, I wasn’t letting the moment escape me though and carried in stroking myself and I squirted again before calming myself down and just laying there before grabbing my laptop in order to type this. I’m not sure if it was my first proper orgasm, but I’m happy I felt something and was able to squirt (trust me, there was a lot)!
So thanks so much for having a great blog and giving me hope. Also, a shout out to all other ladies that if you keep trying, you will find a way to feel something and be happy.
I’m thinking in going to retry some techniques tomorrow and look into buying some toys whilst trying to keep a straight face in front of my boss ;)”
“I semi-openly talk sex and masturbation with my roommate because she’s way more knowledgeable in the stuff than meek little me is. She encouraged me to get my first vibrator b/c I was too tight for even fingers. After some playing and experimenting, something started feeling REALLY Good, but it also felt like needing to go to the bathroom (which young inexperienced me accidentally made a mess in my ex’s bed when we were fooling around and I’ve been embarrassed about it ever since and worried about it constantly.)
After more playing and reading, I learned that it’s just the beginning of a squirt (and to make sure to use the bathroom beforehand!) So I went ahead and wen it happened I just relaxed like instructed and then I felt a wave of relief wash over me. But it was quite small so I was wondering what it was. After reading your blog, I learned that it was an orgasm and that , while not exactly porn-star quality, they’ll get bigger and better over time, and that made me relieved and also a bit more confident to try stuff (including the WONDERFUL pillow advice which got me off quicker and harder than my vibrator ever did!) So again, Thank you!”
“I’d just like to thank you for contributing to making me cum for months now, this blog is one of the several that inspired me to start my own where i post things that just ridiculously turn me on, so i’d just like to say thanks for helping a girl out! (and so glad you’re posting again!)”
“I’m the anon who asked about orgasms with a full bladder… just wanted to say thanks! Your post made me feel SO much better and helped me accept parts of myself that previously made me kind of embarrassed. Plus, all the likes and comments, plus the link you posted, made me see i’m definitely not the only girl who has this happen to them! You really are so nice and knowledgeable, and i’ve honestly learned so much from your blog, so thanks for existing!!!! :)”
“i gave my boyfriend head for the first time and i only had the confidence to do it because of your blog! i had been looking for a how-to for forever cause i was terrified and i wanted to make sure i was good, and then i found yours and he went nuts. plus, the porn on your blog helped for other tips, too :)”
“Let me just say first off that I am a 19 year old male. I stumbled across here thinking “ooh maybe there will be some hot stuff in here,” but I found more than that. I’ve been single all my life, and it gets to me sometimes. But occasionally I find stuff that reminds me that it’s worth the wait. Your blog is one of those. Even though its geared towards girls, there’s still a lot of indirect advice for guys too, and I’ve learned so much that can help me make my first relationship a good one. So I would just like to say, from the bottom of my heart, thank you.”
“You made my entire day with your response! (i have feelings for the same guy my friend does) and just thank you so much! i’ve decided to pursue him further :) it’s not every day you find someone that special, ya know? again thanks very much, have a wonderful day!”
“I am the 28y.o. virgin you replied to. I wanted to thank you so very much because this: “So basically, meet someone, like someone, have them like you, and I’m pretty sure it’ll work out!” melted the fear away. It has become my mantra. THANK YOU!
“I haven’t been following you for long, but I just had to take a minute to say how impressed I am with your blog. Besides posting hot stuff, you also really post helpful and thoughtful things. (That razor handle as sex toy hack for people too shy to buy a toy? Genius). I was a late bloomer to the whole orgasm thing and I really wish a blog like yours had been around then. What you’re doing here is really useful and well-articulated…. and fun. Gold star for you!”
“Where were you my whole high school health class?! :) Thank you for doing what you’re doing- education like this is so important.”
“I love your blog! It really helped me accept my sexuality. I’m really kinky and was always really self conscious about it. Still kinda am a little but I’m sooo much more comfortable with it than I was. And basically I’m just really happy you’re posting again. *gives you a thousand kisses*”
“I’m so happy you’re back!!! Seriously the best surprise ever when I pulled up the blog and saw fresh posts - thank you for everything you’ve given me. I feel so much more comfortable with my body because of this blog. I understand my body so much better & it’s allowed me to do some crazy amazing things! Thank you again!!!! You’re the best.”
“I’m so happy that you’re back running this blog. I used to follow it on my non-sex blog. I still do now. It helped me with many of my concerns about sex and all that jazz. This is truly one of the best and helpful blogs on tumblr. So glad you’re back from hiatus.”
“Hi I have been on your blog for about three days and it has helped me so much. I love the advice and just want to take the time to say thank you. So thank you :)”
“I am so thankful that you’ve come back! When I first found your blog I was trying to learn more about how to make myself orgasm, but then I saw your post about leaving and I was so deeply saddened. I’m glad you’re back so I can learn new methods, tips and tricks to help me out <3”
“YOU’RE BACK YOU’RRE BACK YOUREBACK!?!!! <33333 i love this blog so much and i almost cried when i saw you were gonna stop updating a while back. But I was going to send a link to a friend who’d never seen the blog and i saw you were back… YESSSS! lmao thank you so much for the awesome blog!”
“Hey, I just want to say that I’ve been on your blog a tonne of times and I’ve LOVED it! It’s so useful, educational, and just 100% HOT!! I’ve masturbated to so many videos, audios and stories you’ve posted on here ;), but the main thing is I’ve learnt A LOT from your blog! You’re truly amazing for putting so much time and effort into this great haven, and I’m so glad you’re back! :)”
“I know your blog is aimed at women, but I’d just like to thank you anyway. As a man, I’ve learnt so much stuff about how to pleasure my girlfriend.”
“Just wanted to stop by and say a couple things. 1) I’m glad you’re back because I absolutely love this blog and I was sad when you had to disappear before and 2) thank you for making me comfortable with my body because for the longest time I thought the things I did were weird and it’s comforting to know that its normal, and I’m not alone when it comes to masturbating.”
“You’re doing an amazing thing here. I am going to recommend this to as many of my friends as I am comfortable talking about this stuff with. It’s so important for women to learn about their bodies and make themselves happy!”
“I finally made my boyfriend cum thanks to your advice! Thank you so much - I was so proud of myself!”
“I love your blog and your attitude. You’ve helped me a lot and ohgod you’re just wonderful <3 stay amazing!”
“Hi, um.. so firstly, THANK YOU THANK YOU for this blog. I’m still new to learning about my own body, the sex, and female orgasm. I am 23, but unfortunately my experiences with sexual/physical intimacy thus far have been marred by the fact that I was sexually assaulted as a preteen and have endured other traumas throughout my life. This resource has been invaluable as I learn to have agency both in regards to my body and the beautiful pleasure/orgasms I am worthy of and may go on to give. Thanks.”
“I would like to commend you for your patience and honesty when dealing with controversial topics. You said before that you don’t like confrontation, but despite that you’re not just ignoring the (sometimes very harsh) rebuttals, but answering clearly with sources and links to boot. It’s really admirable.
“Just read through your recent replies to the people that have taken issue with your advice. I just want to give you props for how you handled it. You were very accommodating, respectful, but most of all, insightful with your viewpoints (that I happen to agree with 100%). Your blog went a long way towards inspiring my blog - even though the focus of my blog is a bit different - and reading your responses really reminded me why I fell in love with it to begin with.”
“i just wanted to pop in and tell you thanks for all the good advice. i know you’ve been going through some stuff over the safe lesbian sex post, and i just wanted to express my appreciation. i think you do a great job, i think it’s hard to have so many followers and make them all happy, and i think it got blown out of proportion and misunderstood. anyways, i wanted to commend you on replying with sources to back up your opinions and for all the work you put into this blog <33’
“Hey just wanted to say good for you for standing your ground about some of things you’ve been writing about. I get a bit sick of the general policing of how women talk about themselves and their bodies and as a body-positive, sexy-sex blog it’s great to see you politely sticking up for yourself.”
“I just wanna say, that I totally agree with what you wrote in the safe lesbian sex, drunk sex and straight girl posts. I agree with pretty much everything you write. I just wanted to write something reassuring so you don’t see the social justice warriors only.. Keep up the good stuff, hun. It’s great that you’re back! : )”
“You’re so sweet to be responding to all the dissenters this weekend. I’ve noticed every human being has issues around at least one of three things: sex, money, and food. If you write about any of these, someone will be triggered. The vast majority of us are just thinking, ‘I’m so glad she wrote about that topic!’
You should write a book. Your blog is a balm. Keep talking sense, keep turning people on, and most of all, KEEP ENJOYING WRITING IT!!”
"I think you’re really incredible for answering all those questions so honestly and bravely! Social justice tumblr is SCARY, and I love how your personality and beliefs are clear and adamant without being angry. You’re lovely and I adore this blog.”
“I just wanted to say that the calm and intelligent ways you’ve gone about discussing and debating these recent topics are very attractive qualities so, kudos for being you!”
“I love the new logo and decor! I used to always refer to your blog as OT4G in my head, like “I wonder if OT4G updated?” or “oh OT4G might have a new video today!”“
YESSS FINALLY SOME LOVE FOR THE LOGO. My work here is done!
“I’m a trans* gay guy, but I freakin’ love this blog. I’m totally cool with my vagina and this damn blog makes it all aflutter!”
Hi, i just wanted to say i love your blog and you make me orgasm almost every time i visit. As a trans*man i can forget about any uncomfortableness i have and just go for it!
I’m a transgender person who happens to have a vagina, and while the blog title does not really apply to me, I love this blog because it teaches me ways to explore my anatomy a little more. So hey, thanks for that ;)
Aw, that’s so nice of you to say. Thanks for looking past my technically cissexistly-titled blog (orgasmictipsforvaginahavers is just a bit of a mouthful is all) and stuff. I’m glad you like it guys!
“I just wanted you to know that I LOVE your blog, and that you have helped me so much since I’ve been following you. Until this year I assumed I was bisexual but was just utterly horrified by the idea of dicks, and anyway I was unable to be out in my hometown, which caused a lot of problems for me, including a general fear of ever having sex.
However, this year I started college at an all-girl’s school, and after seeing how safe it was there and how accepting you were about sexuality, I have settled into my identity as a lesbian, to the point where I was comfortable discussing it with my mom and friends from home. I also found the most wonderful girlfriend, who I have now been with for going on six months, and intend to stay with for as long as she’ll have me, which is hopefully a very long time. :) I was a bit worried about sex with her, because I was a virgin and she was very experienced, but she had also been through some bad relationships, including one very unpleasant one right before me, and I wanted it to be good for both of us.
You coming off hiatus was the trigger that set off my confidence, and I finally sat down and discussed sex with my girlfriend. We both decided we were ready, and we had sex, and it was wonderful. I just kept thinking about the way you present sex, in the way that it’s okay to mess up, and everyone is different about their sex, and I was able to calm down and enjoy myself a lot. So, thank you for creating such a great space and such kindness, because I would not have come this far without it. And thanks for helping me finally get laid! XD”
“I’m a guy and I love this blog. I feel like I learn a lot and I will be a better lover when I’m in my next relationship. And its also helped me not be embarrassed about pleasuring myself. Its okay to love myself.”
“So I hooked up with a guy and he told me he’d never cum from just a blowjob. It was my first time giving one and I followed all the advice you gave, and he came in my mouth. Hottest shit ever. Thank you!”
“I just wanted to tell you that I finally got up the courage to try sleeping with my boyfriend again! We tried a long time ago, but it hurt and was awkward and we hated it, and then I was too afraid to try again, but your blog made me more comfortable and confident, and it’s fantastic! Thank you!”
“I just wanted to thank you for this blog! I found it a few months before I had sex for the first time and the things that I read on here really helped me to prepare myself for when I became sexually active. I still go on here to get off or when I feel like I need guidance that I can’t get in real life. Thanks so much!!”
Yay, go team! Have fun :)
"I’m 18 and I’ve never had an orgasm, so i read your tips for people that would always get close but couldn’t quite get there. I thought it would take a while until i could reach one, and i was okay with that, but then: boom! It just happened. It wasn’t huge, but my body was twitching all over and afterwards i was able to sleep really well for the first time in a while. It felt really good and it helped that i just took it slow and enjoyed myself rather than trying to push myself through it.”
Yay, new follower milestone!
*gently nibbles all the new people just below their earlobe*
*for that is the customary greeting amongst my people*
“Up until 22 I was a virgin and after much exploration and finding the right person, I was finally able to let go and simply, just do it. I was so scared and worried and your blog gave me the confidence I needed. It’s amazing how addictive it is. What have I been missing out on! Thank you for all the advice and comfort you give us followers. I’ve never felt more comfortable in my own skin and sexuality. Never did I think I would have the confidence to touch myself with my boyfriend watching. To my surprise, he absolutely LOVES watching me play with myself, begs me to do it for him! And I love driving him crazy. ;) The sex is incredible. Can’t wait to try all the other tips that you have posted. Thank you, thank you, thank you!”
“I usually don’t follow NSFW blogs on this account, but it’s just so amazing! I discovered your blog like an hour ago and you’re so helpful and kind about everything. You’re so nonjudgmental and you’ve helped me become more comfortable with myself in an hour than I’ve ever felt in my whole life. I’ve always felt so guilty about masturbating daily, but thanks to you I’m absolutely okay with it now. So just thank you, very much.”
“I’m almost positive you are a gift from above. Thank you for encouraging me to give myself permission to play and experiment with my body. I love the sense of self-awareness and love that came with figuring out my lady parts, as well as everywhere else sex has an affect on (which is pretty much everywhere). You pretty much gave me my first orgasm and proved to me that I could squirt (when I least expected it!) and I soon hope to get that body shaking orgasm from penetration. Also, the recent solo man? Brilliant! And the mixed audio of 8 minutes men and 10 minutes women? AGH I DIED. Anyways, I’m raving now haha. Thank you so much, and know you are appreciated!”
“I grew up in a really conservative town (my sex ed said that girls never masturbate?!) and every time I masturbate I feel empowered, like fuck yeah, I did that! Thank you so much for running a blog that celebrates female sexuality. You’re wonderful.”
“I wanted to let you know that you’re blog helped me so much. Your blog has helped me explore my body and my boyfriend’s body and he’s made me orgasm without penetration multiple times! I even discovered that if I use the handle of a hairbrush, and then start humping a pillow to finish the job? Holy shit. Thank you so much!”
“I just wanna say thank you so much Holly. Because of you i was brave enough to buy my first vibrator and now with the help of your sexy vids (the two girls is my fave! ;p) i am able to enjoy myself. I also learned that actually I’m not necessarily a lesbian just because i like watching other girls eat each other out! Just thank you for providing me with tools to fight against my insomnia. The magic :O :)”
“I gave my first blow job tonight and he liked it sooo much thanks to this blog! After he finished and I swallowed, he said to me “are you sure you didn’t like watch a video or something before doing this?” I was so proud of myself!”
“Hey there! Just gave the electric toothbrush method a try and the orgasm it gave me was tied for first with sex itself. I’m still shaking and panting!”
“So I used your tip about the tooth brush and holy shit! I finally had my first orgasm. I’ve been horny for days and I just couldn’t manage to actually orgasm, but I used my toothbrush without the head (just the metal strip on my clit) while I was in the shower and OMG my legs are still shaking. I just wanted to thank you for having a blog that gave me helpful and completely not judgmental advice!”
“Hey, i just wanted to say I was reading through your blog and i can’t tell you how great it is. very thorough information. definitely a good site to refer to.”
“I’m so glad you’re back! Your blog is one if the reasons why I made a porn blog and I even referred to you blog to my friends :)”
“I just want to say thank you! I’ve seen all of the shower head things (trust me, I’ve got it practically memorized;) but I’ve never actually done it. But I was in the shower and thought what the hell, since I didn’t have someone to do it for me, and set the nozzle to massage. I tried it standing up, but it wasn’t that great, so I laid down with my feet up on the wall and now I know that I involuntarily shake at a certain point in my intense get-off. I’ve never gotten off by myself before!”
“You my friend have got the best tumblr site ever! You’ve literally save my relationship. Before I found your site my sex life with my boyfriend was going down hill, he was having more fun than I was but then I started to look through your blog and it got me so turned on. Now before my boyfriend comes home I look at your blog and basically for the rest of the day/night we would be having sex at least 4 times. Thank you so much! You’re amazing.”
“Your account is GREAT! And I’m happy you have posted what you have about labias being visible, and your other posts. It actually makes me a bit more confident about my body (especially for when the time comes). Anyways, your posts are great! Thanks for existing :)”
“Thanks to your blog I have just had my second penetration-only orgasm. I normally only orgasm using the shower head in the bath, which works every time. Tonight, while watching a male solo masturbating video while teasing and fingering, I managed to cum all by my own hand. I managed to have a wall-clenching orgasm. It was so pleasing, I’m still shaking. Thank you so much, it was a much nicer feeling ;)”
“Thank you so much for returning! I absolutely adore your blog, and I was so sad to read that you might not be able to keep posting on your tumblr. You are amazing, and just thank you for being your wonderful self :D from a huge fan.”
"I love your blog. I had no idea that it was normal to pillow hump or only get off when lying on my tummy until i found your blog. I’m like 500% more comfortable with my masturbation habits now and just <3 you saved me a whole lot of time questioning and feeling guilty.”
"So I just wanted to share… I have a lot of sex dreams. Like, A LOT. And I usually get to a point where I almost orgasm and then wake up, which is a total bummer. Last night though, I had this really awesome exhibitionist-y dream and came in my sleep! And I think your blog kind of helped that happen, because since I’ve been reading it, I’ve been way more relaxed and open about sex. So thank you!”
“I want to say thank you for all the great advice and tips you give. I’m the anon from last year who wanted to wait to have sex but needed a release. I visit your blog about once a week for my weekly ‘me time’. Visiting your blog and reading everything helped me become more comfortable with myself. I’m still a virgin, but so much happier having fun alone - I just wanted to thank you for all you have done for not just me but for everyone. :) <3”
“Wow. I think I just had my first orgasm. I’ve tried to get off millions of times before, but I never actually get to the point of pure orgasm, I’ve tried everything, light fingering, heavy, full body simulation, pillow humping, shower jets, porn, sub vibrators/dildos, I can go on… but nothing ever really made me satisfied. But after I looked at your blog, you really chilled me out and turned me on, and I sat In front of a mirror with a hairbrush, aloe vera gel (which is an amazing sub if you’re too embarrassed to buy actual lube, because its fine for external use and not sticky, smelly or too thin!) and I just went for it. after a while I went crazy on clit stim, like really rubbing my hand while using a hairbrush for pene too, and I never had such an end as high as that. All of this happened because of your blog, thank you! x”
“This is probably the best blog I’ve ever seen. I just love the way its set up. I never get bored. I scrolled along through it for about an hour and a half. Plus, its so helpful! Thank you for making this blog.”
You are all so kind and gorgeous and lickable and great. Thanks so much for all the wonderful support and the warmest welcome back EVER.
It’s good to be back!
My inbox filled up with some happy sexy messages while I was away that reminded me why I started this blog in the first place. So, um, here they are…
“Thanks to your blog I actually managed to reach my first orgasm. And my god it was awesome. I kinda lay stunned for like a minute. So thank you thank you thank you (I feel like kathy in friends!)”
“I just really wanted to thank you. I read though a ton of your masturbation tips and I tried some and oh my god. I was all shaky and weak afterwards, it was so good. Thank you for being such an informative blog!”“HOLY CRAP! For ages I’ve been using your tips on vibrating things around the house to get me off because I’ve never been able to come with just my fingers. Well tonight everyone was home so I couldn’t use that method but I figured I’d still masturbate, so I plugged into one of the audios and … well lets just say that with a little patience I figured out my fingers are just as fun ;)”
“I love this blog! Thankyou so much! It was thanks to this blog that I discovered the bath faucet method for masturbating which I absolutely adore! Especially during periods because it helps so much with relieving cramps! “
“Oh my god. I was reading a post about squirting and i saw this girl uses a hairbrush to masturbate and i don’t have a normal brush, so i used a makeup brush i don’t use and fucked myself with it while i rubbed my clit. And it was hitting my g-spot the whole time and HOLY SHIT!!! Such an intense orgasm. I didnt squirt but i found my new favorite way to masturbate :)”
“The tip about taking your time to reach climax and backing off when you start to climb to make your orgasms last longer were really helpful! I had such a good time enjoying myself that I actually had multiple orgasms - 3 times in a row all for 25 seconds!
“I’m 20, have had sex multiple times but never had an orgasm. I genuinely thought I couldn’t have one, but b/c of your masturabtion tips, and break down of what orgasms can feel like I bought a vibrator and now I can make myself cum whenever I please. I just used your 8 minute male audio and am still shaking a little 10 minutes later. You rock. This blog rocks. Orgasms rock.”
“So today was the first time i have ever given a guy a blowjob in my whole entire life, and thanks to your tips on how to go down on a guy i can say i mastered it quite well! He told me it was the best head he’d ever gotten, and thanks to you I was able to do it with confidence and really enjoy making him feel good!”
“I love your blog and I’m so glad I found it. Even after all these, ahem, years, I’ve learned a few new things from here. Plus such sexy posts, yum! Thank you for this!”
“I’m 20 now (and a virgin) but some years ago i started o “play with myself” and i did feel a bit guilty but i kept doing it even if i didn’t really know what i was doing, cause it felt kind of nice. i’ve never really touched myself just grinding on my pillow at first, (although I thought I was weird for doing such a thing) but since i found your blog some months ago, i started thinking about other “ways” to feels so good. I never thought I would like it, but now if i’m on my back with my hips raised, and two fingers inside me, just moving them a little while i rub my clit, I have such powerful orgasms that leave me shaking and giggly. now i’m not ashamed about giving myself such attention (even if i don’t talk about it to anyone) cause it’s absolutely amazing. Oh, and i’m working on the showerhead thing cause i really want to know how it feels ;)”
“I’ve found your blog when I was searching about squirting and literally a whole new world opened in front of my eyes. I could get answers for stuff I wondered about sex and masturbation, plus I could watch some porn without the annoying pop up advertisments on porntube! I was amazed!”
“You are definitely my favourite person on tumblr. You’ve given me some super sexy advice and also like self confidence.”
“Ok, wow. Your blog inspired me to buy my first vibrator (Doc Johnson velvet touch). Best purchase ever. Thank you so much!!”
“The first tip I tried here was the showerhead thing. I have a detachable one and I never thought to use that before. It worked so well oh my gosh!!! I’m doing that more often ;)”
“Thank you, OT4G, for letting me know that Reddit Gone Wild Audio exists. So much better than porn!”
“Ok, so just found your blog a few days ago and read every page! It’s awesome. And may I just say THANK YOU for the audio posts. I never really got the appeal of porn, but those are fucking hot. <3”“Just another anon saying i tried masturbating with an electric toothbrush for the first time yesterday and - holy shit! i’ve never come so quickly and so hard that my legs went numb, but now that i have… dental hygiene just got a lot more fun :)”
“Thanks to your blog I just had my first orgasm and squirted! I used the electric toothbrush method and found I didn’t even have to use penetration. I’m still shaking! I have a question though is it normal for pleasure to feel really overwhelming? I got lucky when I reached an orgasm today because it usually is too much for me to handle.”“So after reading your post about it being okay for straight girls to get off to lesbian porn I finally let myself go and stopped feeling guilty about it. I’ve been getting off in the shower with one leg propped up and pretending to hardcore eat a pussy and dirty talking to my invisible fantasy woman and I’ve been orgasming so fast and so hard off it it’s CRAZY. THANK YOU!”
“I’m a virgin, and vibrators are nearly impossible to come by in my country (there’s some sort of law governing sex toys?!) so I’ve been masturbating all my life via clitoral stimulation alone. A couple of times I’ve sort of squirted - not in a great big jet of liquid, just a sort of helpless flooding. But I’ve been tired of just flicking my clit up and down, and decided, hell, lets try a finger. I was scared of the pain and discomfort of pushing past my hymen, so I kept it to one finger, and only till the second knuckle.
It felt so full, and strange, but also wonderfully like I was getting down to scratching a deep-seated itch. I tried to simultaneously stimulate my clit with my index finger, and holy shit. It was the most jolting, electrifying feeling ever. I would push my middle finger in and out incrementally, while doing this scratching motion on my clit. I sort of lost awareness of where I was, it was that overwhelming. I kept going until I squirting like I’d never squirted before. There was a little puddle around my feet, and I was insanely proud of my vagina. And regardless of sitting in my own liquid, I sort of did it two or three more times - I just didn’t get tired of it! after coming like 4 or 5 times, I realised my capacity for sex is pretty huge. I can’t wait for actual penetrative sex, and the look on my partner’s face when I squirt all around them using the same trick. ;)”
“Your posts are so helpful! I felt really strange towards masturbation, but now I’m comfortable in my own skin! I’ve found different methods and different types of porn that turn me oh. Thanks again for the GREAT blog.”
“So I followed you around a year ago but then unfollowed because your blog kind of made me feel anxious. You see, I had been with the same guy for 3 years and hadn’t orgasmed yet. But recently, since I’ve found confidence in myself and with different partners, I’ve come back. For anyone who’s nervous or uncomfortable with this blog: it’s sooo important. Knowing how to get yourself off alone and with preferred partners is amazing and important and this blog is very helpful!”
“I am so thankful for your blog, and I’ve recommended it to so many people. Thanks for catering to nearly EVERY kink I have and making me fearless, and giving me this wonderful sense of community. Your blog helped me to figure out a new way to masturbate, which nearly always makes me squirt.”
“This blog has made me more open towards exploring my body and less scared about when I lose my virginity. Which I thought was like a life changing event that would label me and change who I am entirely. You’ve helped me see that this isn’t the case.”
“I recently turned 18 and considered buying a vibrator. I get off fine with just my fingers but I wanted to try a vibe. Welll your blog kinda convinced me to buy one! Im really excited for it to show up ;)”
“I can now officially say that you have given me more orgasms than any other person, guy or girl. A BIG thank you for that. I hope you’re proud :D”
“I love the fact that you post both heterosexual and lesbian tips/porn.”“I just squirted for the first time thanks to you! I elevated my legs better while inserting two fingers inside of me with my vibrator on maximum level and my gosh it was amazing I had to share I’m going in for another one!”
“Okay so I just masturbated with my electric toothbrush for the first time and holy fuck, I’m kicking myself in the ass for not trying this before! It’s absolutely AMAZING! It’s been like 5 minutes and I still feel it a little bit. 10/10 recommend ;D”
“Whenever i want to masturbate, i just automatically come straight here… its amazing. I am a straight girl but for some reason i just really get off to girl on girl, its the only thing that does it for me! please post more!”
“A friend posted this blog on her dash earlier today and I randomly decided to take a peek. I don’t follow a lot of sex/sexy blogs but as soon as I pored over this one for a bit I hit that follow button. I love the honesty and openness of this blog, and the fact that you shame no one for anything. It seems a very comfortable, educated site and I give you a round of applause for creating it! I’ll definitely be coming back here. Thanks again!”
“Hi! Thank you so much! I read the posts about the shower head thing, and I tried it today. I lost count of how many orgasms I had! The last one was the best I’ve ever had! Thank you!!!”
from ze inbox…
"Last night I was going through your blog and I saw the humping/grinding tags and started to get a little horny and I tried some pillow humping and it felt so good, but I couldn’t reach an orgasm, even though I got very close. So I started grinding my clit on the corner of my mattress and started moaning so loud I was afraid my brother could hear me. I came seconds later. Since I waxed all my pubic hair the day before, the feeling was enhanced. I guess I’ve found out my guilty pleasure.”
“I just have to say I absolutely love your blog! I think its great women can comehere and be so un-judgementally informed about how incredible their bodies are. Thank you!”
“I know we have never met before, but I must say you sound pretty sexy and I have this strange urge to fuck you through the internet (despite the fact that I’m straight). So yeah I just want to say thank you for this blog and thank you for leaving me wet and horny each time. Bye!”
I sometimes wish someone would fuck me through the internet! You’re welcome ;)
“I saw your post about using an electric toothbrush as a vibrator, I tried it and it worked out AMAZINGLY. I had like the best orgasm ever, thank you!”
“I’ve masturbated once before but it didn’t feel that great (probably cause i didnt know what i was doing) so I never tried again but then last night I tried with an electric toothbrush and holy shit my life is changed. I’ve had sex before but I never orgasmed but just with a simple vibrating toothbrush I orgasmed ridiculously fast and I never really got that idea until I read this blog so thank you!”
“Hey Holly. Just wanted to say thank you for making this blog. It helped me come out (I’m bi), appreciate my body for all it’s natural beauty, and made sex with my boyfriend amazing. Like, doing-it-in-a-public-bathroom-because-we-can’t-even-make-to-the-car amazing. Thanks a million, and rock on, dirty girl!”
“Okay, so I’ve been trying for a while, and I think I just orgasmed! I’m not 100% sure, but I guess I’ll have do do some more investigating ;) but thanks so much for this site. It’s really helped.”
"May I just say, I love your blog so so very much! The stories, the gifs, your witty attitude. You are just absolutely freaking awesome! New fave blog! Keep up the good work woman!”
“Just wanted to write in and say that after reading all your posts on squirting, and some practice, I was finally able to bring myself to a squirting orgasm some months ago. Since then, I’ve refined my technique, and I’m a regular wet orgasmer now, and I feel no shame about it. Thank you.”
“i just squirted for the first time after reading all your tips and i have to say i feel pretty accomplished :))) thank you muchly!”
“I just watched ALL your videos and had the best day in the history of ever! I am so turned on and just wish I had somebody next to me to play with. But flying solo was AMAZING thanks to you! P.S. We miss you round here!”
“Thanks to your blog I know everything I need to know and feel more informed and less awkward. I am much more comfortable with myself and a overall happier person now that I have found ways to release my energy in a MUCH *suggestive wink* better way!!! Thank you so much for running this blog and allowing me to become more comfortable with who I am!”
“This blog is actually THE BEST! It makes me feel totally empowered, confident, sexy, and proud of my sexuality. Thank you for everything you share!”
“I just found your blog today and I must say it is certainly what I’ve been looking for. I’ve always felt a bit secluded from my group of friends, we are always open with one another but a few seem to look down upon masturbation, so I’ve always been a bit ashamed. It doesn’t stop me though, now that I have your blog and read through some of the post and stories, I feel less guilty. Plus I’m a very vocally stimulated person so those sexy audio posts are amazing.”
“I am so glad I found this blog! Not only has it helped me learn some new ways to pleasure myself, but it’s helped me realise I like the thought of sex with other women more than I thought (up until now I’ve identified as pansexual but recently I’m swaying more towards the lesbian side of things). I definately need to explore this further now ;)”
“Can i just say thanks for helping me learn to masturbate. i hope that wasn’t taken the wrong way. heh. anyway i’ve been masturbating wrong all my life, having thought that the sensation i got from rubbing my clit was kinda odd. but i kept going (and somehow managed to hop onto literotica to put on an erotic audio in the process), and had my first orgasm! so thank you for making my day. heh. life perhaps. oh my god have i gone to heaven”
“Love your blog, and since being a frequent visitor, I decided to treat myself to a bullet vibrator and its the best purchase I’ve made. Finally I’ve been able to reach an orgasm on my own!”
“Omg, okay so I have tried masturbation for about 3 weeks and I have never given myself an actual orgasm. I googled it tried almost everything and I came across your blog and read through it and I layed on my stomach and when I tried again, It was amazing. thank you!!”
“Just thought you ought to know that I love you blog and with it’s help I squirted tonight ;)”
"I just watched the videos of the women reading stories with vibrators… wow. Possibly the most satisfying orgasm Ive ever had.”
“Hi there! Just wanted to say me and my close friend Claire LOVE your blog so much, thanks for running it :) This might be a bit odd but it’s her 19th birthday coming up and I know she’d love it if I could get a screenshot of you replying saying happy birthday? Thanks so much :) xxx”
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CLAIRE!
“This blog means so much to me and I’m sure that sounds weird but with so much taboo on sex and masturbation this is a place I know won’t make me feel guilty for wanting to do either. I’ve gotten so comfortable with myself bc of blogs such as yours(: exploring myself and things I like and not being ashamed of it, I’ve even learned quite a few things from this blog so thank you so much for everything<3”
“hey girl! i just told someone today that through 2 degrees of tumblr (she told my friend who told me about this blog) she lead me to my first orgasm so thanks is due to you as well! so much thanking it’ll make you cum.”
“This blog is awesome and really helpful and informative and makes everything easier to do and talk about and feel and it makes me much more at ease and confident so thank you!”
“Oh darling, i love your blog! honestly, its great. its helping me with exploring myself and talking to other people about sex, masturbation and all that stuff. you’re awesome!”
“Found your blog yesterday and I can’t stop touching myself… I’ve went through different posts at least 10 times…”
“I started masturbating last year and when I started I found some really great websites that allowed me to hear from other girls like me which was really great. The problem about it was that some people had the wrong information and others talked about things that ‘turn everyone on’ that didn’t really do much for me, which just made me want to work harder to like that kind of stuff. I ended up spending a couple of months reading about rough sex and lesbian sex and (even as a gay rights supporter) this stuff just really didn’t do it for me at all and I felt uncomfortable. Thanks to you I was able to really become comfortable with who I am sexually and I was able to really know what was happening when I masturbated.”
“Thank you so much. Less than a year ago I was in a really bad place. I was on and off starving myself and making myself throw up what I eat, I was cutting myself and I was basically suicidal. I started masturbating when I was seven or eight but I had no idea what I was doing until I was about ten. I felt guilty right away because I knew I shouldn’t be touching down there the real guilt didn’t start until I knew what I was doing. So I tried to stop but it felt good right?
So I would mentally beat myself before and after (and during) like telling myself that I’m a whore and I should die and what would people think of me if they found out and I’m going to hell (I’m not religious but I still told my self that) and that no one will ever love someone like me. Flash forward a whole lot of years to the very end of my teens and I’m still beating myself up about this while having 1) a mother that hates me 2) the job to be a good example to my siblings 3) the pressure to loose enough weight to be able to see my collar bones and have a thigh gap All cramed onto my tiny plate.
So what did I do you ask? I turned to something people said was an outlet, that’s right I started self harming. And that was just another brilliant way to punish myself for being a dirty slut. So every time I masturbated I would either cut or reopen a healing one. Now. A hop a skip and jump into the future and I have my suicide notes written and I’m just waiting for the most poetic moment I can find and a few thing go differently. I make a tumblr. I find people like me just waiting for the moment and I want to stop them. I don’t want them to kill themselves. So I dispose of the notes and I just plan to hang on but I’m still hungry and sliced up. Well I say fuck it and start eating properly because food is fucking delicious. However the cutting carried on. And on. Just for a bit though. I was never a deep cutter, sure I have a couple scars but those don’t look self harm-ey. Now I’m just irritated about life and I’m pretty much done cutting for that reason. But I’m still punishing myself for masturbating. Then I stumble onto your blog. And it changed me. It taught me that I’m not a slut for making myself feel good and happy. And at least I can love myself while I wait for someone else to love me as well. I’m human. I’m happier. I’m still fairly fucked up, but slightly less so now. I’m still as virgin as they come (I’m actually happy this way, the idea of actually having sex dosent appeal to me as much) but happily alone with my hands, just waiting for a cute girlfriend to throw into the pool or a cute boyfriend to throw me into the pool. So this was my life story apparently (this was actually meant to be a short thank you) but I just wanted to make it clear that you single handedly gave me what I needed to make peace with something I was at war with for years. Thank you. Thank you more than I can ever express. With love, M.”
Over to you…
“I just squirted for the first time thanks to your legs up tip. I always thought I was one of those girls who can’t squirt and I was so amazed cause it literally gushed out and I completely soaked the sheets! Thank you so so much this blog and your great advice!”
“Thanks for your post about getting used to penetration! I have written you before, because sleeping with my boyfriend was too painful, but after reading that post I felt much more comfortable and I was able to have sex for the first time! It was great, so thanks for the post! Stay awesome.”
“I just found your posts about being able to get off by crossing your legs together, and oh my god, I’m so happy because I thought it was really weird that I did that. Now I don’t feel like a bit of a freak. So thank you. xxxxxxxxx”
“Just wanted to say thanks for having such good advice/info about cumming/orgasming/squirting. I’ve always thought something was up because when I masturbate, I don’t (usually!) squirt. But now that I know the difference between the 3, I can finally put my worries behind me. Great blog by the way.”
“Thanks to your blog and the sexual confidence it has helped give me I have ordered a new vibrator! Before I was always kind of embarrassed about it, so thank you so much. (I have a cheap one that my friend gave me as a gag gift, but since I got it and loved using it I’ve wanted something from OhMiBod so much! And I finally just said to myself, why not? You deserve it.)”
“I just wanted to share what happened last night if it’s okay. I was on your blog (which I love very much) and I was so horny, and the posts were only making me hornier. Before i went to bed I was reading how to make your orgasm last longer and I tried it and it was amazing! Oh my god, I’ve had orgasms before but they lasted only for 1-2 seconds, but this one was jesus christ amazing and i was arching and panting and sweating like never before! That’s it haha.”
“I just have to say, I really appreciate that this blog is not just centered around heterosexual sex. I know there are a lot of girls out there like myself who want sex tips and a safe place to explore without completely missing out on an entire side of sexual intimacy.”
“I came across the girls and guys getting off audio recently… holy shit. You are a goddess. At night I play the male getting off audio, cross my legs, play with my breasts, and imagine I’m giving my boyfriend a handjob. Usually I’ll orgasm by the time the male does. Wow, that shit is hot.”
“OMG this is the best blog ever… Just wanted to let you know. I always thought it was strange that really good sex would make me cry hysterically on rare occasions… It’s only happened a few times and it typically freaks my partners out, but I guess I’m not crazy after all :) It may not seem like much, but you made me feel more normal.”
“I recently found your blog and OMG is it a goldmine. I had been getting bored doing the same old masturbation tricks. So when I saw your different ways of getting off, I have to give each a shot. I kinda combined your mardi gras breads and pillow humping trick together. I came SO hard that i was twitching and spazzing out. I had to actually stop because I got so sensitive. I’m actually getting horny just writing about it. THANKS SO MUCH! <3”
"I just really want to say thank you for running this blog! I’ve read so many body positive posts that really help me have confidence when it comes to sex, and not only that but seeing all the stories and the such has helped me with being more open with my boyfriend. I’ve so far had no problems telling him what makes me feel good, and in turn he trusts me to tell me what he likes too! Not only that, but the blog helps me get off a little when he’s home, hours away. ;) Thank you so much!”
“I think you provide an invaluable service and I hope this blog becomes obscenely popular. Sex education is still abysmal in this country, and having a place to go and ask questions and learn while enjoying a degree of anonymity is again, invaluable. Thank you.”
“So I had a lot of fun listening to your male orgasm audio… that was one of the best orgasms I’ve ever had! When I used my Clarisonic vibrating face cleansing tool at the same time it seemed just like the real thing. Amazing!! :)”“Oh, my gosh, I love this blog. So does my boyfriend. Our sex life has gotten like 5000% better since going through some of the tips and advice on here. Oh, my gosh.”
“I’ve been back at uni for about two weeks now and haven’t been able to get off at all because I share a room with someone, and I’m not much good at the clenched legs thing. But finally tonight my roommate was staying someplace else and I had the room totally to myself. and I used your lady-friendly porn and some of the tips I’ve learned from you and it was great. Thank you so much!”
“I just love love love love your blog. So mature and yet extremely fun, sexy and informative as hell. Thank you sooo much.”
“I tried the showerhead technique at my friends for the first time last week. I’ve tried using the bath faucet before, but it was a little uncomfortable. And it doesn’t even compare to the fantastic and orgasmic feeling the shower head gave me… like OH MY GOD SO GOOD!”
“So, I tried the faucet method for the first time yesterday because I was home alone, and let me tell you, it’s felt so amazing! It felt even better than the showerhead. The feeling was unlike any other. I came so hard my legs and stomach kept twitching, which doesn’t happen very often! Thanks so much for introducing it to me. :)”
“I just had my first orgasm, and it was nothing like I had ever imagined. Absolutely brilliant, but also so very strange - I loved it! For those still in doubt - yes, the shower head works. Trust me.”
“Everyday I learn something new by reading your blog. It just gives so much information that I actually enjoy reading and actually understand!! I’m not sexually active yet, but you give so many info & tips that just prepare me for the world that I haven’t gotten to explore yet. So basically, thank you! For not having ONLY dick and vagina pictures like regular porn blogs. xx”
“OMG! Thanks to your blog I found my clit, I masturbated and I came! Thank youuu.”
“Thank you so much for this blog! When I first found it a while ago I was experimenting with a vibrator because I could not get off with simple manual stimulation. Over time I tried different methods and watching various accompanying videos and eventually was able to manually stimulate my clitoris efficient and effectively. Your blog also gave me the extra confidence boost to continue to find a way to orgasm. Have a good day!”
“I always thought that masturbating was wrong. So once I started doing it, I felt really bad & dirty. I even felt like I would get bad karma because I felt I was doing something wrong. But once I found this tumblr I felt like there was nothing wrong about making myself feel good & EVERYONE does it. It’s just a way to figure out how your body works. So THANK YOU VERY MUCH for running this amazing blog.”
“Hello! I’ve been a long time fan of this blog ever since a friend showed it to me. I just wanted to say I had my first orgasm yesterday and this blog is to thank! I read about how I can use a back massager to masturbate (which I’ve tried, and it felt GREAT but I could never climax). Yesterday my boyfriend came over and he asked if he could use the back massager with me. Maybe it was because he was doing it, or he was at a better angle, but I was able to orgasm! Thank you for your advice ^^”
“I just stumbled upon this blog and I had to share it with my best friend. We both instantly followed, and we’ve been sitting here for half an hour reading different posts and talking about them. It’s so great to find a blog tailored to the art of the female orgasm, as well as various other tips & tricks. Thank you for being awesome.”
“OMG. Thank you so much. THANK YOU. You made me determined to find something to masturbate with, because although I can get there with my fingers, I’m impatient! So I found this old massager and it vibrated like NO OTHER! And it’s handle is, like, perfect for clitoral stimulation! It’s AMAZING. THANK YOU.”
“Thanks to you, I gave myself my first masturbation-made orgasm. I can usually only do it when having sex with my boyfriend (and only when I’m on top) but I read your post about the showerhead and about how just to breathe through the overwhelming feeling, and it happened!”
“So, I was self-conscious about a couple of dumb little things and after reading like, two little blurbs I already feel better - so thanks so much.”
“Oh. My. God. That audio of all those guys getting off, holy fuck. PLEASE post more.”
"i just want you to know that your blog is really very empowering and helpful. I’m a virgin and when I first started masturbating i thought it was really gross and sick, I felt so guilty, but then i found this blog and you don’t even know how much better it made me me feel about myself. Your tips and facts about masturbation are great for me at the moment, and hopefully when I find that right person, your other material will come in handy as well ;) Thanks for being you!”
“For the longest time I could never actually orgasm, then I tried masturbating with a showerhead (which was a tip i found from your blog), and wow. Best feeling ever! Now i do that every day, plus i can get off with a vibrator now. I’m so happy i can finally orgasm. Thanks so much :)”
“Mhhhh, I just wanted to say hi and THANK YOU for running this special blog, seriously, from the bottom of my heart. And by ‘heart’, I mean pants.”
“Just wanted to say that thanks to your blog, I was able to squirt for the very first time ever and it was amazing so thank you.”
“God bless your face. Seriously, this blog is so amazing and informative and supportive, and exactly what so many people (myself included) need to help them understand and love their bodies. we all really appreciate your work.❤❤”
"This is my first time sending something, but I just wanted to thank you so much! I just had my first orgasm and it felt so amazing!”
“Hi! I just wanted to let you know that I love your blog so much! I have learned so much useful info and I appreciate how hard you must work to keep such an amazing blog going.”
“Hello darling! Just wanted to write to you once again, thanking you for the amazing effort and dedication you use through this blog. It’s amazing all the amazing orgasms I’ve had from some tips I’ve read and even trying new things!”
“I’m pretty sure your blog is a gift from above! I literally just spent two hours on it right after I discovered it :) Thank you!”
“I know you get this alllll the time, but thank you so much for this blog. My parents are super-conservative to the point where if those erectile dysfunction medicine commercials come on the TV, they start talking really loud over it and change the channel. As if their 21, 18, and 15 year old daughters don’t know what erections are! (I mean I’m not sure about my younger sister, but when I was 15 I knew so…) Anyways, this blog has taught me a lot that I could never ask, so thank you! Stay wonderful.”
“THANK YOU for merging those two audio clips together. I had listened to both but never thought of listening to them at the same time. Let me tell you, I didn’t even finish the whole audio post before I came.”
“Listened to the new audio… It was almost too much. Came almost instantly!”
“Super, gigantic, and amazing thank you for the recent male audio post. Cheers!”
It’s funny really, but I think this little blog has made more people happy than anything else I’ve ever done! It always means a lot when someone takes the time to say a post was useful, so thanks to everyone that wrote me recently. It’s crazy awesome to think I’m helping people have some extra fun ;)
thirty little victories from people who wanna say…
Sometimes people wanna share their little sexual victories, and every so often I post ‘em all at once. THIS IS ONE OF THOSE TIMES.
Also, it kind of shows how it’s always possible to learn new things! People can and do suddenly find a new thing that works for them. Sometimes it happens for no reason at all! So if you’re struggling a bit with sex stuff, don’t give up hope - soon enough, you could be one of the people below :)
(And yep, before you get at me, I AM TOTALLY WORKING ON ANSWERING MORE QUESTIONS!)
Here’s what people said…
thirty happy messages
So, some anon told me I posted too many of these, and that I should knuckle the fuckle down and answer more questions already. At first I was like "uh, entitled much?" but then, really annoyingly, it actually worked and I answered tobs of questions! Dammit.
But now I’m gonna post some more. Sorry / not sorry.
“I’ve recently been fretting over pubic hair, and then you go and make that lovely post! This blog is the absolute best. <3”
“I was that audio anon from not too long ago - thanks for posting it! It was really liberating to share the recording, and seeing people like and reblog it felt great. You’ve got such an amazing, empowering, and helpful blog and I can’t thank you enough for running it. <3”
23,000 plays! I think people enjoyed it as much as you liked making it ;)
“I was reading all the sex dreams and by the third one I was literally dripping. I guess I imagined myself in their place or maybe having the dream… I don’t know what it was, but WOW I have never gotten so wet without even touching myself before. Keep up the good work, I love this blog so much.”
27 more after the jump…
eight things my followers *really* like
Learning to orgasm!
“I found your blog through a friend’s and have been on for like an hour haha. I read so many things that I had being DYING to find answers for, and now feel safe and happy and healthy with my body! I’m not nearly as self conscious as before and I’m glad to find that most girls relate to me! I tried a few new things, and literally just had my first orgasm thanks to you. The feeling still hasn’t gone away… oh my god.”
“I had my first orgasm today masturbating to that video of the girl in the yellow shirt. Thank you much, your blog is just what I needed to finally get me there.”
“So more than FIVE years ago, I tried and failed to put in a tampon, and it somehow scared me off doing anything ‘down there’, including masturbation, ever since. Then a fortnight ago your blog taught me what I’d been missing by avoiding down there! Orgasms FTW ;) A very happy reader:D”
“Thanks to the post about using bath faucets, i’ve finally been able to orgasm and its AMAZING! :) Thanks for the amazing blog, and making me feel more comfortable with my body and unashamed to masturbate.”
“Just wanted to let you know I just had my first orgasm thanks to your tips. I feel like I can conquer the whole world now!! Thank you! <3”
“I wanted to say thank you for your blog! I’ve always been afraid to even try masturbating. Though all the tips on the blog finally got me to the point of me thinking “Well why not.” I used a back massager and had my first orgasm snd even squirted. Again thanks for your dedication and hard work.”
“I’ve been masturbating for a while but never really gotten myself off by it. However, I’ve just been following a few tips from your blog and I feel like I’ve just experienced my first orgasm and it was incredible! I constantly touch myself but it’s never felt like that before so, thank you so much!”
Guys getting off!
“I’m so glad I checked your blog tonight & found all those guy masturbation posts! Never been so turned on in my life. I remember hanging out with a group of my friend’s & somehow got on the topic of watching/listening to guys get off isn’t a turn on, that its WEIRD. And I’m just sitting there silently like, do any of these girls even go on the internet? haha all of them had a boyfriend, i was the only virgin & still was the only one that found it hot when seeing or hearing guys turned on.”
“I just read your post about girls who like guys getting off and jesus fuckin’ christ i could literally hug you right now. Thats a huge turn on for me and i always thought i was weird for liking it, so thank you so much (:”
“Holy shit, the male masturbation video you put up - the hands free one - holy sweet bees in the damn trap, that was SO HOT. It was the hottest thing I’ve ever seen especially at the end when he finally cums… I was dripping, to say the least. Thanks so much for that vid, OMG.”
Treating your partner!
“I was always too scared of giving a blowjob to my boyfriend. I was scared of hurting him, or doing it wrong. I was also terrified of deep-throating because I have a weak gag-reflex. Every thing I’d read just mentioned deep-throating. And it put me off. Then I read your ‘how to go down on a guy' post. And after much debate, I decided to finally go down on my boyfriend. And he loved it, he wondered where I'd learned my skills. Thank you so much for broadening my mind on this! <3”
“I gave my first blow job ever today. Me and my boyfriend were on the couch, and I managed to end up on my knees between his legs sucking him off! I actually managed to make him cum using tips from your how to go down on a guy post, thank you so much!”
“I gave this guy that I’ve basically been in love with for about seven years a blowjob, and it was my first, and I only got the courage to do it (and do it well I might add) because of this blog! Thank you so so so much! :)”
“Oh my god, i read your “how to go down on a guy” post a few days before a long weekend away with my boyfriend, and it gave me just the confidence i needed (; thank you on his behalf.”
"I fingered my girlfriend for the first time just recently and damn, it was amazing. And I really do think your blog had something to do with it ;) Combined what I already knew about how her “hot spots” functioned, but added in the tip about finding the G-spot, and damn that worked out well! First time doing anything with here more than grinding and kissing, and I was able to make her come. It’s a memory I’ll be keeping for a while…”
Buying a vibrator…
“Just wanted you to know that I finally got the guts to get a vibrator for the first time. I just got a plain silver one, and it is so perfect. I was never one for penetration, but I just did it without thinking and it felt great! Thanks for giving me the courage to go get one. My lady parts thank you as well.”
“Thanks to your blog I bought my first vibrator today. The girl who was helping me was very nice, and didn’t care at all that I was super-embarrassed. Anyway, I’m trying it out tonight, and it’s all thanks to you!”
Learning new tricks…
“So I read your tips about having multiple orgasms. Afterward I was really in the mood or whatever so I tried to do it, and OH MY GOOD GOLLY. It totally helped me look at masturbating in a different way, and now my body is having something I call “aftershocks” … My clitoris, labia and pelvic muscles are twitching sporadically. Thank you!!!”
“I just wanted to say thank you for introducing me to masturbation with a showerhead. Oh my, I’ve done this a few times now and it has been amazing. I always wait till my flatmates are out, because then I don’t have to worry about hogging the bathroom, but every single time it was just mind-blowing. So just thank you for this page and all the advice! :D”
“I tried the showerhead and it was OMFG good! I think I even squirted, although since I was in the shower, I’m not positive… but yes, so good! Thank you!”
“Just tried the showerhead thing… unf! It was the most amazing feeling in the world <3 Thank you for your tips. Keep up the good work (:
“I recently saw your posts about humping things like pillows and stuffed animals, and i just wanted to say thank you for helping me for a new type of bond with my plush bunny. ;) i got off insanely fast grinding with my clit against its nose. <3”
“Thanks so much for your pillow humping advice. I am an 18 year old girl and when i was younger I thought i was weird and always felt dirty afterword. Now i practice smiling like you said and i feel better. I also had a great time yesterday when i stacked two pillows and a comforter on a chair and rode it cowboy style in my underwear. I had a mirror behind me so i was looking over my shoulder at myself feeling sexy. Super empowering, fun and i highly recommend it :]”
“I JUST SQUIRTED FOR THE FIRST TIME. I’ve been trying for so long - penetration isn’t exactly a big thing for me, turns me on to think of having something inside but not so much actually having it - so I was sad that maybe I couldn’t do it. But I just was now masturbating and rubbing my clit and had the urge to push and it just happened!!! AH so satisfying. Thank you!!”
“I found your blog a few hours ago and someone had written about using a back massager on their clit… I just tried it and my legs are STILL shaking ;) Thanks for the great tips xoxo”
“Omg, I just masturbated with an electric toothbrush for the first time, and it’s the closest I’ve ever come to orgasming! My hands are still shaking. I had to stop because my parents would be home soon and I can’t do that when they’re home (I’m a moaner lol) but I know what I’m doing every time they’re away ;)”
“I just want to thank you so much (like everyone else haha) for teaching me new ways to orgasm! Before reading this blog, I’d tried most of your suggested techniques — shower head, toothbrush, pillow, etc. — but I’d never been able to get off doing them. But since I discovered your blog, I’ve given them all a second try and I’ve had the greatest orgasms ever. Also, I just wanted to share that today I was super high and masturbating, and it was probably the best thing ever. Thank you so much!”
Getting turned on…
"Shit, I just watched those girls have a threesome and OMG I’m so wet and turned on right now. I want a girl to make me scream like that so badly!”
“To the girl before who felt guilty about her fantasies of forcing herself on a guy: If it helps, I’m a guy and I found that post hot enough to make me squirm in my chair a little. It looks like I have a bit of a new kink now!”
“Your blog has made me so wet, I can’t even help it. unf. Keep up the excellent work!”
“Omg, I just found your blog today and I’m absolutely addicted to it! I couldn’t help but read nearly every single sex story that was on your blog. Please continue to write more! xo. <3”
“I just love the “Beautiful Agony"-videos you sometimes post! Only seeing the face and what’s happening there, turns me SO on, especially when two or more girls are masturbating. Thank you so much for those :)”
“I really enjoy the sex stories you post here. I always read them and then imagine them happening to me and the guy I like… and then just letting my imagination run wild.”
“I was looking through all of these stories of how other girls had their first orgasms and it just made me soo turned on. It’s past midnight here and I just finished about 5 minutes ago. Thanks ♥”
Feeling happier about things in general…
“I know you get these all the time, but I just really wanted to thank you for your blog! I grew up in a really, REALLY conservative home, and masturbating wasn’t even something I knew girls did until I was in my later years of high school. Hell, the conservative-ness has impacted me so much that I’m 24 and still a virgin. Your blog has gone a long way towards making me feel not only normal, but honest with myself about who I am and what I want. So thank you, again!”
“Your advice about my boyfriend and his ex helped a lot! I talked to my boyfriend about it too and I’m feeling better about the whole situation overall. Thank you thank you thank you!”
“Your blog has helped me so much. My boyfriend has been away for a while and I’ve been having to take care of things solo and I always used to have trouble with it. Not anymore! But he’s home now and sometimes we read this blog together ;)”
“I really want to thank you for your blog! Because of it, not only have I become more comfortable with masturbation, but have been willing to try different methods. (The one that has worked best for me is pressing my thighs together)”
“I CANNOT EVEN BEGIN TO TELL YOU HOW MUCH I APPRECIATE THIS BLOG. I’m 18 and have been masturbating since I was about 10 but I have never had an orgasm. This is something that has frustrated and worried me for years. It seemed like all my friends had had orgasms, so I thought I might be “broken” and was too scared to ask a doctor. But reading all the stories on this blog have shown me that girls have their first O at all different ages! And you’ve given me tons of ideas to try! Thank you SO much!!”
“Totally love your blog - you have some amazing tips that I’m going to use from now on! ❤❤ My sex life is kind of in the rock bottom but with these new tips I think I can spice it up :-D”
“I used to think that I wasn’t deserving or worthy of an orgasm and that prevented me from having great orgasms. I’d feel bad when people went down on me, like I was taking too long or whatever. Thanks to your blog, I’m having more fun by myself and with others than I ever have. The guilt is gone :)”
“This is literally my all-time favorite blog, I’ve been following and kinda sorta stalking you for a few hours, just reading and such. I actually feel a LOT better about my sexual desires now. thanks :)”
“Holly, what you do here in this blog is *so* incredibly important and empowering for society and for awakening individuals. I’m going to dive in now and explore more of what you have created. “
“You are an amazing person. Just thought I would share.”
“I really wish i had your blog in my life when i was younger. i could’ve saved myself a lot of misery. hope you realize just how important you are! :)”
“Just want to say, I absolutely adore your blog. Words can barely describe how much my adoration is. Thank you, thank you, thank you for starting it :3”
SPOTTING THEMSELVES ON THE BLOG
"OMG!!! i just saw that black and white gif set with 2 kissing girls (“do you want to go somewhere different?”) and i was really turned on because i thought it was so hot… and then i realized…. THAT’S MEEE! it’s a scene from some girl/girl-porn i once did. haha, i was on my own dashboard, what a freaky moment =)”
It’s a small, sexy world. (Sometimes I wonder if any of my real life friends have read this blog!)
Anyways, thanks everyone for writing, you’re the loveliest.