“Two of my friends and I all turned 18 this August. We all wanted to get something that commemorated the fact that we were now “adults”. There’s this really sketchy sex shop on the edge of town that we decided to go to and purchase matching vibrators. I have wanted a vibrator for a while, but never knew how to get one without my parents knowing. So to be honest, I was really glad that my two friends were willing to buy ones with me.
After I bought it, I didn’t realize how intimidating the actual vibrator was going to be! I’m a virgin, and barely ever use tampons. I usually get off by rubbing my clit. In my mind, the only way you could use a vibrator was to insert it inside yourself. When I was home alone today, I decided to put it to use. After many failed attempts to get it inside of me, I started to massage my inner labia with the tip of it. It just felt so nice and relaxing. Instead of holding the vibrator so that on the tip touched my body, i pressed it against me so the whole length of the vibrator was against my body. It was stimulating the lips of my vagina as well as my clit. The sensation was incredible. I never made myself feel so aroused. I orgasmed almost 4 times in a row, each time my body would convulse in pleasure to this new kind of amazing orgasm. So even though I couldn’t get the vibrator inside me, I’m still glad I got it!”
Yeah! Using a vibrator on your clit is the #1 to use it, even when they’re dick-shaped. Sure, they might be shaped that way so you have the opportunity to use it for penetration if you want, but actually most girls use them externally (or at least that’s the thing that makes them come!) and they’re just lovely used that way.
“So I’ve noticed that i should probably masturbate more often during the day! Like, its not bad in the evening, but I’ve discovered that I don’t get this little… high? I don’t know how exactly to describe it - i feel lighter and kinda giggly all of a sudden. I’m just in an incredibly good mood afterwards! At night I’m just kinda “oh, I’m done then.” do you have any idea why that might be?”
I think because when it’s nighttime, you are done – like, it’s time for bed, and everything is over. But in the daytime, you get to go about your day in a good mood!
Also, maybe when you start out touching yourself, it’s something you only feel confident doing at night, when everyone else is asleep. So when you do it in the daytime, it’s like an extra "I can literally do this whenever I want, fuck yeah!" treat. And especially as the daytime is meant to be the time for serious and productive endeavours, it’s that little bit more sneaky and exciting.
“I was just wondering - is it normal to orgasm MUCH quicker and stronger when it’s been a while since the last time? Because I’ve never come so fast in my life and my legs are still shaking after about eight minutes. (Also, I love your blog, it’s amazing – thank you for existing!)”
Yeah, that’s totally normal. Good, huh?
“I’ve just got back from a vacation where I had absolutely no privacy. I had to sleep on the couch, and there was no way I could ever be alone. And now I’m home and I cannot stop masturbating. Is this bad? I just feel like I’ve been so deprived so I can’t seem to get enough of it!”
Nope, it’s not bad at all, you’re just luxuriating in the return of privacy… and catching up on some lost time ;)
“Does anyone know if I can somehow reduce my desire to get off? It’s becoming annoying that I feel like I need to get off every day.”
I do find that if I’m busy with other stuff in life – whether it’s working on a project or going out with friends or just binge-watching a TV series – it distracts me from feeling horny, whereas if I’m a bit bored and in my room and alone then I’m a lot more conscious of it. So, maybe that’s part of it for you, too? Or maybe not!
Alone in a bathroom stall…
“I was on a vacation with just my mom not too long ago and we were taking a trip to Whistler in Canada with a tour group. We were on a rattling bus for about 2 hours. Somehow the way I was sitting stimulated my clit while the bus shook. I was trying to discreetly roll my hips but it wasn’t working, I was just getting hornier and hornier.
After an hour we had a bathroom break and I ran in, locked myself in a bathroom stall, and finally finished myself off. It was so intense and such a relief, I absolutely loved it.
Actually, I think getting myself off in a public restroom is my new kink, because when my mom and I went for lunch in Whistler, I had to sneak off to the bathroom and do it again, as quickly as I could.
And then again after dinner that night!
It just makes me feel so wild and, especially when someone else came in and I had to keep totally quiet, it was such a rush. And then going back to the table and nobody knowing… ugh, it was just so great!”
“So this would be hilarious if it wasn’t so sad. I just made myself squirt (yay!) and I was watching it on the web cam (not recording unfortunately) and so I’m pretty close to my laptop to do this. Well, my fluid lands right on MY FUCKING MOUSE PAD. Like direct hit. And now my mouse pad doesn’t work. What a fucking ordeal. I’m so pissed off.”
“OK, I don’t have anyone else to talk to about this, and I can’t in any case because I’m really shy… but I’ve been so curious as to whether or not I would like being spanked in bed.
So, the other day I tried spanking myself during masturbation. I sat up on my knees, rubbing my clit. I started off gently smacking my rear, but quickly built up to hard slaps. I was so shocked and turned on that it felt so good. My eyes went wide and I gasped at the first hard slap. I almost got so carried away with spanking myself that I forgot my fingers were on my clit. I started rubbing again and continued to slap hard, feeling the sting on my hand and rear. I had no idea I would like it so much. I was panting and moaning every time I spanked myself. I came so hard my body was jerking and I was moaning like crazy. I felt so accomplished with myself because I’m always scared to try new things, but I will certainly never regret trying this.
I don’t know if wanting to spank yourself is normal or what, but I had to tell *somebody* and I love your page. Every time I scroll through I get insanely wet. Anywho, thanks if you took the time to read this!”
Oh, I read it more than once ;)
“I get turned on by pregnant women. Not just by seeing a women who is pregnant out in public, but by seeing a pregnant women pleasure herself and stuff. Is that weird?”
I don’t think any one turn-on can be called weird, but in any case, this one isn’t that much of an uncommon ‘thing.’ FWIW I think there is something intriguing about how your body changes during pregnancy, kind of like ‘puberty: pt II’, and I also like the idea of it potentially being a sexual and erotic time of your life as well as just Impending Freaking Motherhood.
So yeah, don’t worry about it ;)
awkward moments from my inbox…
“I hid my vibrator and now I can’t remember where. Fuck.”
“Oh my gosh I feel so embarrassed! I was grinding on the edge of my bed and I was getting really close to cumming, but then my mom just opened the door and I stopped immediately and she didn’t ask or anything, just talked to me normally and stuff. I feel so embarrassed and I’m pretty sure she knew what I was doing. I really hope she doesn’t try to address it, or something because I’d really rather not talk about masturbation with my mom. If she does mention anything, what should I say?”
Oh, I would probably just say as little as possible in the hopes of ending the conversation ASAP.
“I was listening to some male orgasm sounds when the headphones came off and it played out loud like “UHHH…” for half second before I managed to pause it. it was so embarrassing, I hope my family didn’t hear.”
“My mom just walked into the bathroom and saw my electric toothbrush (which has no head on it of course) in my hand while I was trying to hide it, I told her I had just broken the head and was going to throw it away, but I think she’s onto me. I’m literally SO embarrassed :(( please tell me this has happened to other girls who still live at home, I’ll feel better knowing I’m not the only one who’s had to go through this!”
It’s not just you, but also: your electric toothbrush is meant to be in the bathroom remember? For brushing your teeth? That’s not even suspicious!
“I took my laptop into the bathroom to masturbate, and watch porn. Well. She caught me bringing it out of the bathroom, and she asked did I have it in there with me. I got nervous, and told her I wanted to finish reading something. I hope she doesn’t think anything of it. Any advice if asked again?”
'I can only pee if I have Netflix.'
“So, not even five minute ago, I was reading a story on solotouch and touching myself. As I was rubbing my clit, getting close to climax, I noticed a little bit of movement on my comforter (I was on my bed) and look over to see a SPIDER crawling towards me. I stopped ( I was freaking out), tried locating a shoe, and killing it. That was annoying. I just needed to share that.”
“After I finished getting off I realized I was out of deodorant and my mum keeps a bunch of new ones in her bathroom I didn’t bother getting dressed, cause you know I’m home alone. I open the door to their room and my dad is sitting there on his iPad and he looks up at me and I quickly closed the door and said nothing. I know it’s my fault in the first place. But I didn’t open the door all the way and maybe he didn’t see anything? Aaah I’m really embarrassed.”
“Oh my god. My dad may or may not have just caught me masturbating to your blog! I have no idea if he knows or not. Dying.”
*moment of silence for everyone that’s been walked in on*
“Just tried pillow humping after your blog made me so wet. I straddled my pillow w/ my tits pressed against my cool wall. As I thrust my hips and felt the pressure on my clit, it immediately felt like the moment right before orgasm and I gasped. I moved my hips harder and faster as I clenched my bed frame, my tits hard, rubbing against the wall. I let out a moan as my pussy clenched and I came so hard. I lasted for so long, panting and thrusting harder and harder. Lying here now, my thighs are still trembling and I’m still so wet.”
Oh my… *fans self*
Glad you had fun ;)
My masturbation session…
“I discovered this blog yesterday, and was reading through the posts, and boy are they hot!
I’ve been apart from my boyfriend for about 3 weeks now, and the last time I saw him I was on, so we didn’t do anything. Basically I haven’t had sex for about 7 weeks and I’m known for my voracious appetite! I’m frustrated as hell, and solo play just isn’t taking the edge off so far!
So I find your blog, and it’s really tuning me on, sometimes it takes a while for my body to catch up to my mind when I’m turned on, but no problems here now! I was soaking through my underwear, and I could feel myself pulsating with each heartbeat. I come across a video of a girl masturbating to watching a couple and it’s really getting me going. Something about the voyeuristic nature, watching the watcher, plus hearing the sounds of the couple is really making me horny!
Usually I only climax stoking my clit, but this time I fancy something different. Maybe I’m craving my boyfriend, or maybe I want to mimic what I’m watching on the screen, but my fingers creep down and I start fingering myself. Just slowing stroking my sopping wet walls, pounding against my g-spot. I’ve never really found my g-spot myself, my boyfriend usually has no trouble, but this time, maybe the angle was just right, or the mood, but something was definitely building. I’m still going slow, just crooking my fingers, steadily building myself up. All of a sudden I feel something gushing into hand, and I realise I’ve squirted for the first time ever. As I never usually come through penetration, I move upwards to my clit, taking again the slow and steady build-up route, but this time starting to circle faster and harder as I reach one of my most blinding climaxes I’ve ever achieved with my hands alone!
It was so intense and I can’t wait to try it again, maybe with my partner as he’s coming to visit this weekend… I may have some more stories to tell! ;)”
“I remember the first time I masturbated so clearly. I was about nine and at that age I liked to lay on my stomach while sleeping. Somehow at night my blanket got bunched up underneath my vagina and I woke up with a pressure underneath me. Obviously I had no idea what was happening and when I shifted I could feel that it felt good. I kept rocking back and forth on it and (wow little me) imagining myself stripping in front of my male classmates. I didn’t orgasm, of course. I was too young to know that I had to keep going.
I do remember the first time I orgasmed though. I was 14 and home from school sick (my mom was downstairs and was none the wiser). I was woken up by a very vivid sex dream of my history teacher (he’s so hot), so vivid I can still remember and use it to this day. I was so horny that I didn’t even remember I was sick until I was done. At this point, I knew what masturbation was and that it gave pleasure and orgasms, but I still had no idea what one was and how to get it. Anyway, in the dream my teacher and I had both orgasmed so I replayed the whole thing from the beginning in my mind. I turned over, shoved my blanket and stuffed toy (with a nice pointed nose for perfect clit pleasure) under my vagina. I just kept thrusting and thrusting, eventually throwing my hand down there as well and getting down to just my underwear. I came so hard that morning I had vivid flashbacks every time I saw my teacher all though out high school. Too bad he was married and we couldn’t make my dream become reality…”
“When I was young I did this thing I called “riding a pillow”. I didn’t know why it made me feel so good but I just kept doing it. I started wondering if that was the same feeling that adults have when they have sex. And the older I got, the more it dawned to me that I was indeed pushing myself to an orgasm by riding a pillow. But now to my actual concern: I used to do it just anywhere, including in front of my parents, and they obviously knew what I was doing! Now that I know what I was doing too I feel so awkward!! Any advice?”
Kids do lots of wildly inappropriately stuff, and discovering masturbation without knowing what it actually is is just one of them! It’s super common so don’t freak out. Remember: your parents are the same people who had to change your diapers as a kid, so by comparison this kind of stuff would’ve barely registered.
“So yesterday I was taking a shower then decided to use the showerhead on my clit… I’ve done it before but it never really felt good. I put in on a higher power and put it right against my clit. it felt so good, I couldn’t stand it. I couldn’t keep it on long. My hips bucked and my toes clenched up. so my question is, how can I keep it on long enough for orgasm?”
Ease off for a while, keep breathing, maybe switch to your fingers for a few seconds, then go again, holding the showerhead a little further away to start with and slowly building up all over again. Don’t worry about making it as intense as you can stand, just find something that feels pretty good and go from there. If you keep experimenting and exploring you’ll find something between ‘not good’ and ‘too intense’ and get to enjoy all the delicious pleasure in-between!
(Also, hips bucking and toe-clenching actually sounds a lot like an orgasm so be sure that’s not what’s happening!)