“My boyfriend of almost 5 years is into BDSM, and we’ve talked about it a lot about all his kinks and how far we’re both willing to go. My problem is that I’m a very headstrong person who finds it very difficult to ‘obey’ orders even though I want nothing more than to please him. I dont know how or if I can get into that mindset of doing everything he says (within reason) and enjoying it just coz it gives him pleasure - help?”
Q:Are you guys accepting submissions? If yes can you post a link to where I can submit please!
believe it or not, it’s… http://orgasmictipsforgirls.tumblr.com/submit
“I just got out of a crappy relationship, and I wanted to do something crazy, so while I was at this party I hooked up with a guy I didn’t even know. It was amazing.
He was wasted, and randomly asked me if I wanted to head up to a bedroom with him, and (astonishingly) I said yes. We got to a room, and he wasted zero time. I was tossed onto a bed, and without speaking to me he begain to lick up and down my legs. I gasped, and he asked if I wanted him to stop. I shook my head no, and he continued. I’ve never been eaten out before, and it was great. He was gentle, but sloppy at the same time. He gently flicked my clit with his tongue, and tasted my wetness. By now I was begging him to fuck me, but he stuck his tongue into me untill I could practically taste the orgasm that was building.
Finally, he took off his boxers. He wasn’t done teasing me though, and he rubbed my clit with his cock before finally puting it in me. Once he got going, it got even better. This guy really knew where to get me. He pounded my g-spot until I was shaking, and rubbed my clit with his fingers. I came so many times, I lost count. I was sopping wet, and when he kissed me, I could taste myself on his lips. He told me to get up, and get on all fours. I listened. He got behind me, and pounded me some more. At this point, I was moaning, and begging him not to stop. Everytime he orgasmed, I felt him shudder, and it turned me on. We went from doggy style, to me on top, grinding against him, coating him in my wetness. He kept calling me sweetie because he didn’t know my name, and by the end of the night the words ‘sweetie don’t stop’ were embedded into my brain. My night was great. And from now on, I think I’m going to try and be a little more outgoing in the sex department.”
disclaimer: this is not a guarantee your random hookup will be erotic and explosive. random hookups can be awkward and disappointing as well. oh boy can they.
“Every month in the week before my period I go through 2-3 days where I’m literally horny All. The. Time. If I don’t do anything about it it gets to the point where it hurts. It kind of reminds me of going into heat… just wondering if anyone else gets this, and how I can sate the urges when I’m at college in a subtle way?”
“My best friend and I both identify as cis straight females… but sometimes we masturbate watching porn together in bed. (I think it started when our boyfriends were busy and we were having a girls night. We were both talking about how horny we were and then we saw some porn in our dash as we were on tumblr. Time passed and we put on porn, and eventually decided that it wouldn’t be weird if we masturbated.) Do other people do this? What does this mean?”
I’m gonna take a wild guess and say this isn’t massively common (although it’s definitely not the first time I’ve heard of it!) but if you’re both comfortable with it then it’s totally chill. I don’t think it has to ‘mean’ anything other than the fact that you both think it’s fun and just so happened to realise the other one felt the same way ;)
“hey, so my ex broke up with me a week ago because he is gay. but i told him if he wanted, id let him give me anal and ill just sit there and he can pretend im a guy and whatever, im a virgin btw, so what can i do to like prepare for anal and that kinda stuff ?”
Oh sweetie, do not do this! It will not work. Being gay is not about wanting to put your dick in butts, it’s about being attracted to and falling in love with men!
You must both be going through a really hard time right now, and i feel just awful for you. But he’s gay, and you’re a woman, and you can’t just solve that via the magic of anal sex, however much you wish you could. Nesides, you deserve to be in a relationship with someone who is going out with Actual You, not You Pretending To Be A Guy.
Be kind to each other and start moving on. And away from your butt. Hugs, etc.
“So, this may sound oddly specific or just plain weird, but I love porn where one of the people are on the phone trying to stay calm for a conversation while having sex or receiving oral sex. I have a hell of a time finding videos that specific, but they are the best when I do. Thought I would share my random fetish with you!”
Here’s something for you, random follower :)
"I started mastubrating at a very young age. At that time, I didn’t really understand what I was doing and all I knew was that it felt hella good. I was scared that something was wrong with me or that I was doing something bad so I kept it a secret for the longest time. Around that time, I learned to hump a chair and it’s always been my method since I became a teenager and learned more about how I can pleasure myself. Even then I thought that nobody has ever humped a chair or basically anything to get off. I thought simply using toys or fingers were always the norm. I saw your site and I’ve just been reading through your humping tag and realized that I’ve been pretty normal lol. Last night I actually just started humping the side of my bed (my frame stretches out from my mattress) with my vibrator on my clit. It was one of the best self-induced orgasms I’ve ever had. I’ll be sure to go through your site as often as I can!”
“This past Friday, I lost my virginity, and I needed to tell someone!
My boyfriend of two years and I were alone in his room “watching a movie” when it happened.
It’s something we talked about before and sort of “messed around” with a bit, but this time we had real, long, sex.
It was honestly really nice, and while I can’t orgasm on penetration alone (yet!) it felt really great and made clitoral stimulation better. I could relax because we had protection and the night before he had asked me to tell him all the things that turned me on, so that helped me relax too ;)
It wasn’t a special day or anything, but it was still romantic because it was with him and he told me often throughout that I was beautiful and that he loved me. I couldn’t ask for a better boyfriend or first time :)”